I had asked the question of if people really do care in a previous post of mine. I gave different examples for my asking my question as well as my personal life experiences and feelings. I got so many wonderful replies and huge insights. To this I am truly grateful for.
I also got some thoughts about if I have questioned my own self and if I care? If I have gone beyond just the prejudgments towards others and looked at my own self?
To this I can truthful say yes I have. I have done this many times before I ever wrote my question or even though of it. I am huge on self accountability and self reflection. I do not lie or hide the truth or my feelings even if they are about me and in a negative light. So yes, I have questioned my own self in a very honest, open, and truth way of accountability.
I have dawn the conclusion that I am no saint of any kind. I will not dare promote myself as such. I am no better than anyone. I screw up and make mistakes. I have to apologize, and learn, and grow like anyone else has to. I can not part water or walk upon water. I am blessed if I can keep myself afloat in water beyond 10 second. I have horrible moments where I can easily be such a complete idiot and super jerk. However, I know me better than anyone else except for God. I know where my heart is and why. I know I love people in general and feel bad when they suffer. I know I have given alot so many times to those in need that I don’t personal know and never asked to be acknowledge for it. I know I have given way more to those I cared about despite my own suffering to do so or waiting to be asked. I know my heart and what my heart has done. I know I am not saint by any means. Not even close to that. I also know that I am a sinner, but no devil. I am no greater or worst than anyone.
So in my self reflection as some have brought it up for me to ask, I have and I have answered it. The life experiences I have and how they have hurt me so much in trusting people and my fears of getting too close to people ever again. I know my current life experiences and how that mimics my past experiences. I know the pain of being hurt by those closest to you who have chosen to give alot less, take alot more, and forget about you as they break your trust in them and throw you away like unwanted useless trash. I know people really don’t care and there is solid evidence of this. I know my life experiences is evidence to people not really caring and the pain that lives so strongly as a result.
Who really cares about anyone? No one does.
Questioned asked and answered. Life goes on in such a dark place.