Maybe what is going on overall: some of us on the forum may be gifted as teachers or in exhortation, etc. Maybe if one is posting, the goal is to teach or exhort. Then, we may not need to reply to that person who's in teaching mode cause it only frustrates that person who may want to teach and not to engage in an interchange or interaction. Some are here to share and receive wise counsel or to bounce an idea around or to be uplifted. Some don't look for that here because they just want to issue a warning or prophecy.
Maybe we need to ask Gods Spirit to know when to say something or keep quiet (just not reply). Many times I see some as simply wanting to teach. Period. Do any of us sort of sit and wait and desire the last word of our wisdom? Sometimes I do this. This is just my flesh and sin in itself; nothing more. Not telling anyone else their motives.
"To sum up, let all be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit; not returning evil for evil or insult for insult, but giving a BLESSING instead; for you were called for the very purpose that you might inherit a blessing." 1 peter 3:8-9
If I'm not a blessing by lifting someone (biblically), then I ought to be silent. "For this is precious in the sight of God. "
I'm not here as the wise teacher. No I am blind and naked. Let those who are prophesying just of it without a remark from me
I want grace. I've had enough of the rest.
You make some good points here Candice. Any online forum can get lively at times, even a Christian one, because people are often passionate in their viewpoints. But as you inferred, lots of people also ask questions here, so answers will come forth. I don't really see a problem if people are civil and respectful. It is okay to disagree. Personally, this Deeper Life sub-forum is the main one I have an interest in, unless I randomly see an interesting thread in one of the other sub-forums. But many of the topics even in this forum don't always grab me; I only write if a thought jumps out and even then, I usually will not comment if it is something I have no experience with or have little interest in discussing. With that said, it's good to see all the various viewpoints and personalities that come to the table.